Caring connection with your elderly loved one

Conversation is connection & the key to a long, happy life.

When you can’t be there, we’re here to spend meaningful, personal time with your loved one.

We build significant, one-on-one relationships with older adults at their homes or in their communities. These visits may include a chat on the sofa over coffee, a walking/talking outing in the park, or discussing a current event over a board game in the common area of an assisted living community. While this may sound simple, the positive effects of authentic, rich social connection and companionship are proven to enhance longevity and overall health and well-being.

Pricing
  • Pay Each Visit

  • $$95per visit
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    • .1 virtual visit
      (telephone or FaceTime)

  • Pay Each Visit

  • $$125per visit*
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    • 1 in person visit

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  • Get Comfortable

  • $$475per month*
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    • 4 in person visits
      (1x per week)

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  • Stay A While

  • $$950per month*
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    • 8 in person visits
      (2x per week)

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                    *Transportation fee is not included and varies depending on visit location

Our Mission

To help our clients keep their minds sharp and their spirits high through engaging conversation.

Who We Serve

Our clients are ages 60+, and we are happy to work either directly with the individual or in conjunction with his or her family. Because conversation is at the core of our work, we recommend that our clients have the capacity to remember familiar faces and engage with others through discussion.

Our Experience

Jamie is a former psychotherapist with extensive experience working with older adults and clients with mental illness. While these visits are not therapy sessions, they are in many ways therapeutic. Shelby has served older adults through her work in the study of aging, art, and as an activities coordinator and intergenerational educator. She works with clients in a heart centered and deeply thoughtful way. We bring a host of proven techniques and methods that support our clients feeling validated, heard, and understood. To learn more about us, click here.

How it Works

We schedule visits in a convenient location of your choosing: a private home, residential community, hospital, rehab facility, or virtually. For those clients who are mobile, we can meet at a coffee shop, park or other preferred destination in the Portland metropolitan area.

Detail of Our Services

  • 50-minute visits (longer visits are available), committed to building a relationship formed over time based on kindness, reliability, and someone who deeply listens with genuine interest.
  • One weekly post-visit email update to hiring family member, if applicable. Information will include major changes since previous visit and observed concerns related to health or mood. While this is subjective and not diagnostic, We are happy to offer insights that may help alert, validate, or alleviate concerns.

FAQ

What is Conversation & Company?

We fill the gap between traditional caregiving, and creating genuine social connection. Our professional team brings meaning to your loved one’s life — as well as better health and well-being — through friendship and companionship. When you can’t be there, we’re here to support your aged loved one with focused attention, interesting conversation, and engaging activities.

What do the visits look like and what do you talk about?

Visits are entirely custom and personalized, so aside from the core component — one-on-one conversation — it will be different for each client. Sometimes we combine an activity with our chat, such as taking a walk outdoors, discussing news articles, doing a jigsaw puzzle, creating scrapbooks together, or playing card games. We tailor each visit to the individual’s interests, and we follow her or his lead for discussion. Many clients enjoy reminiscing and sharing details of their past. This often results in feelings of connection and joy, stress relief, and renewed meaning. We are uniquely qualified to empathically listen, ask meaningful questions, and provide emotional support. While we are comfortable hearing stories of sadness, regret, loss, and longing, we also open the door for more upbeat conversation and humor as much as possible. The goal is for each visit to be stimulating, engaging, and uplifting.

How is this different from traditional caretaker visits?

A traditional caregiver’s focus is on helping a client with physical and/or functional impairments with basic tasks like bathing, getting dressed, making meals, managing their medication and so on. What’s often missing from this equation is deep, purposeful listening, friendship, and focused attention. In some cases, the caregiver is the partner or adult child of the elderly individual, which takes great personal sacrifice. It’s hard to always be available and to have the time or energy to provide a truly listening ear. This is where we come in to provide engagement and support.

How can Conversation & Company help during difficult transitions?

Perhaps your loved one has recently moved or lost a loved one of their own and is struggling. This is the perfect time to call in the reinforcements with Conversation & Company! A regular check-in with a friendly, non-judgmental confidante is one of the best ways to lift your loved one’s spirits and help combat his or her loneliness. We bring a listening ear and compassionate presence to not only help alleviate your loved one’s distress but also to empower him or her with ideas and resources to get through a particularly difficult period. It’s been our experience that having something to look forward to plus connectivity to another helps people move in a more positive, hopeful direction.

My loved one is depressed, and might not be the best company. Is this really for her?

Our core mission is to help older adults end the devastating cycle of isolation and loneliness. It’s not uncommon for older adults to experience sadness, feelings of disconnect, grumpiness, or general melancholy for many reasons. Conversation & Company wants to know all — we’re genuinely passionate about connecting with and learning from the older generation. A feeling of purpose and value is one of the best ways to overcome negative feelings and find hope and renewal.

Does conversation really help?

YES. Countless studies prove that social connection enhances longevity, bolsters cognition, improves health and contributes to a much higher life satisfaction. Social isolation is a burden on individuals, families, and communities. Your loved one and all elders are NOT burdens. They are people with rich histories, knowledge, and opinions that we genuinely love learning more about. We are here to help shift the tide for our clients, one conversation at a time.

How is this similar to/different from therapy?

Thanks to our combined backgrounds as a therapist and gerontologist, the skills we employ at every visit reflect the best of any therapeutic session: active, empathic listening that’s attuned to both verbal and nonverbal messages. We are open and accepting, and make sure to reflect back what is said for clarity. Our work is all about developing strong, trusting connections.

 

Unlike therapy, there is no assessment, evaluation, diagnosis, or mental health treatment. Additionally, the therapeutic process consists of helping the patient build awareness of internal states and modifying dysfunctional beliefs and behavioral patterns. We help older adults recognize what they are feeling and why, but there is no processing and changing of core beliefs or behavior. Finally, should the client ask and show interest, we will share details about our lives – which wouldn’t be the case in a formal psychotherapy relationship. Again, this is a reciprocal relationship where information is shared and real, and interpersonal connection is fostered.

The Attention They Deserve, the Companionship They Need.

We provide the social connection necessary to keep your loved one healthy, vital and happy.